February 15, 2025

Conscientiousness: Reliability, Responsibility, and Self-Control

Conscientiousness is a virtue that holds immense importance within the framework of a Christian family. It encompasses the values of diligence, responsibility, and mindfulness towards one’s family members. Conscientiousness is considered one of the Big Five fundamental personality traits in psychiatry. Highly conscientious people exhibit traits such as reliability, responsibility, and self-control.

Avoiding Burden and Irritations

In a Christian family, the concept of conscientiousness is rooted in the desire to avoid becoming a burden on other family members. Jesus emphasized the importance of selflessness and considering the needs of others. Conscientious family members strive to alleviate the potential stress and burden that may arise from lazy conduct. This not only promotes harmony within the family but also fosters an environment of mutual respect and support.

Diligence, Responsibility, and Excellence

Central to the policy of conscientiousness is the commitment to diligence in performing one’s duties and responsibilities. Apostle Paul’s admonition in Colossians 3:23, “Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters.” Each family member should approach their tasks reliably, recognizing that their efforts serve God and express love for their family. Conscientious people do what they say they are going to do.

Furthermore, all work within the family should be carried out with thoroughness and excellence. Proverbs 10:4 reminds us, “Lazy hands make for poverty, but diligent hands bring wealth.” Family members uphold the standard of excellence set forth in the Christian faith by ensuring that tasks are completed properly and to the best of one’s ability. This prevents the need for rework and cultivates a sense of pride and accomplishment within the family.

When a family member assumes responsibility for a task, it is imperative that they fulfill it in a timely manner without the need for constant reminders or nagging. This aspect of conscientiousness aligns with the biblical principle of accountability. Galatians 6:4 (NIV)^[1]https://biblehub.com/galatians/6-5.htm encourages believers to “each carry their own load,” emphasizing personal responsibility. By adhering to this principle, family members demonstrate respect for each other’s time and commitments.

Being Proactive

Conscientiousness also entails being proactive in identifying and addressing the needs of the family. Rather than waiting for someone else to take charge, family members should be alert to work that requires attention and willingly step forward to complete it. This echoes the spirit of servant leadership exemplified by Jesus, who washed His disciples’ feet as a symbol of humility and service (John 13:14-15).^[2]https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=John%2013%3A14-15&version=NIV By taking the initiative, family members embody the essence of Christian love and selflessness.

Manifestation of Love

Conscientiousness in a Christian family is a manifestation of love, respect, and responsibility towards one another. It reflects the teachings of Christ, who set the ultimate example of selfless service. Family members create an environment where mutual support and growth flourish by adhering to the objective of avoiding burdens and irritations and implementing the policy of diligence, responsibility, and excellence. In upholding these values, a Christian family strengthens their bonds and serves as a beacon of light in a world that yearns for such examples of love and conscientious living. Conscientiousness is a virtue worth striving for.

Author: Jon-Roy Sloan is the Chief Communications Officer for NationsUniversity and the author of Anastasia Smiles: Love Needs No Translation. Disclaimer statement: Please note that the opinions expressed herein are those of the author alone and are based on his personal understanding of scripture and how God works in our lives and do not necessarily reflect the views of NationsUniversity®.

Article 15, Family Policy Series – 206 Conscientiousness